Saturday, June 6, 2020


Updated: 13 June 2020

Solitude :

Sometimes it is really hard to deal with people, 
  • People who don’t want to listen you.
  • People who don’t value  you .
  • People who take you for granted .
Then the best solution for you is stay away from them .

You know why? 

"Being alone is better than being ignored."
“Being alone is better than losing your self respect.”

"It is better to be a lonely loin, than a popular sheep".

Don’t get disheartened 
"Sometimes life is too hard to be alone , and sometimes it is too good to be alone."

"Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people,
You shouldn’t drink poison just because you are thirsty."

And you know what? 
"No matter how many friends you have in the end of the day, you will be alone with your problems and pain."

There is a little difference between loneliness and solitude. 

Loneliness :

When you feel lonely when you are alone then you are actually emotionally weak.

  “ If you are  lonely when you are alone, you are  in bad company.”

In Jung's views :
"Loneliness doesn't come from having no people around,  but from unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself , or from holding certain views which others find inadmisable."
~carl Jung 

Solitude :

And solitude is the state of emotional wellness. 
  • In which  you feel you are enough. 
  • You feel ok either someone wants to spend time with you or not .
Although we are social creatures still begging time from someone is not advice able from me .

“Some journeys in life can only be traveled alone.”
 ~Ken Poirot

“Loneliness is the poverty of self, solitude is the richness of self.”
~May sarton

Solitude quotes, difference between solitude and loneliness.
Be a loner. It is better than being ignored. 

“Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living”.
~Albert Einstein 

“Without great solitude, no serious work is possible”.
~Pablo Picasso 

Solitude quotes, difference between solitude and loneliness.
No solitude, no serious work. 

“The best thinking has been done in solitude”.
~Thomas Edison

Solitude is addictive:

 “Solitude is dangerous. Its addictive once you see how peaceful it is , you don’t want to deal people.”

Thursday, May 21, 2020

Eid poetry

Updated : 15 July 2020

Eid poetry 

عید کا دن ہے اور میری یہ کوشش اور خواہش تھی کہ آپ تک کچھ مثبت، کچھ خوش کن الفاظ پہنچاؤں، پر یہ شاعر لوگ، یہ حساس لوگ مجال ہے جو خوشی کے لمحوں میں بھی خوش رہ پائیں۔
کوئی نہ کوئی غم انہیں بے حال کئے رکھتا ہے ۔
:بقول شخصے 
تو بتا اے دلِ بے تاب ، کہاں آتے ہیں
!!ہم کو خوش رہنے کے آداب کہاں آتے ہیں

تو آپ لوگوں سے گزارش ہے کہ آپ فلحال 
اس مواد سے ہی لطف اندوز ہوں ۔ ہرچند کہ تھوڑا آزردہ کرنے والا ہے۔ 
پریقین جانیے کافی معیاری ہے۔
تو چلیں آغاز کرتے ہیں ۔

Eid poetry collection :

ہٹا کر زلف چہرے سے نہ جانا شام کو چھت پر
کہیں کوئی عید نہ کر لے ابھی رمضان باقی ہے ۔ ۔ ۔

Eid poetry, ramzan poetry, eid mubarak, eid wishes,
Kaheen koi eid na kr ly abhi ramzan baqi hy.

عید کا چاند تم نے دیکھ لیا
!چاند کی عید ہوگئی ہوگی

عید بھی منالیں گے 
یہ فرض بھی نبھالیں گے 

رسم دنیا ہے نبھالیتے ہیں 
عید آتی ہے منالیتے ہیں ۔ ۔ 
اتباف ابرک ~

ہر ایک درد کی شدت چھپائی جائے گی
عید تو عید ہے، آخر منائی جائے گی۔ ۔ ۔

Eid poetry, eid mubarak images in urdu.
Eid poetry 

!یہ جو اتنا خلوص لائے ہو
 اس کا اب میں آچار ڈالوں کیا؟
!ٹھیک ہے، عید ہے، مگر بھائی 
اب اداسی کو مار ڈالوں کیا؟
عابی مکھنوی~

Eid mubarak images, eid poetry, eid wishes
Is udasi ko mar dalon kia : eid saeed

ہوئی عید سب نے پہنے طرب و خوشی کے جامے
نہ ہوا کہ ہم بھی بدلیں یہ لباس سوگواراں۔ ۔ ۔
میرتقی میر~

Eid mubarak images, eid poetry, eid wishes
Turb u khoshi k jamay : eid mubarak

کہاں کی عید،کیسی عید، کیا عید ؟
یہ کیا گڑبڑ مچائی جارہی ہے؟ 
جون ایلیا ~

اب کے کیا عید مناوں میں
اس گھر کو آخر کیا سجاوں میں
گزرے ہیں کیا کیا الم ہجر کے
کوئی پوچھے تو کیا بتاوں میں
ہم ہارے ہوئے ہیں خود زندگی سے
کسی کو جینا کیا سکھاوں میں
اب تو وہ غم خوار بھی نہیں رہے پاس
کسی کو کیا داغ دل دکھاوں میں
میں خود سے نہ نبھا سکا زندگی بھر
خرم اور کسی سے کیا نبھاوں میں
خرم کاظمی~

حالانکہ بہت خاص۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ ہوتی ہیں 
مگر جانے کیوں؟ عیدیں اداس ہوتی ہیں 

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Lesson learned in life

Updated :23 June 2020

Lesson learned in life :

 Every  individual has his own ideas and believes about life .
Most of us fail to understand the concept of life.

“Some people don’t understand the concept of life. Life is a struggle and struggle until you are happy.”

Life is not always the same you were used to know or you were used to  experience,  it has different stages , and every stage demand a different you . There is no finite lesson in a life full of uncertainty. 

Every incident of life teach you a different lesson. Best ones are those who are open to learn and modify or adjust themselves in different situations. 
Life literally teach you in a way that no one can teach you , because you can’t skip a single phase of your life and every phase is full of lessons.

Although I’m not a good student but life hit me too hard that it  automatically enabled me to learn what it want to teach me.

Here are some lessons I have learned in life so far. 

  • Every test is a blessing, every blessing is a test. 
Lesson learned in life, Quotes images,every test is a blessing
 Every test is a blessing, 

  • Be careful  what you tolerate , you are teaching people how to treat you. 

Lesson learned in life, quote images, be careful what you tolerate
Be careful what you tolerate 

  • There comes a time in your life when you need to stop reading other people’s book, and write your own. 
          ~Albert Einstein 

Lesson learned in life, Albert Einstein quote image,
Stop reading other people’s book. Start creating your own. 

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  • We all grow at different rates . And that’s ok.
  • Do what you have to do, until you can do what you want to do.
  • You could give some  people a drop of water ,and they’d still appreciate you.You could give the other people the entire ocean, and they’d still take you for granted. 
  •  your faith is not tested on your best days. It is tested on your worst days .
  • Don't be a rigid person who never bend and mold himself according to the situation.

  • Forget the person but not the lesson .

  • In three words I can sum up , everything I have learned about life, it goes on.  . .

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Sunday, April 5, 2020

what is happiness quotes

Updated :19 July 2020

What is happiness ? 

(quotes )

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing , you will be successful.  

Quotes about happiness
Success is not the key to happiness. 

Is really success is the secret of happiness ? 

It depends on your definition of Success . If you think , you achieve something then you are successful, you are wrong . Real happiness is being contented with your own 
self , and with what you already have.

Happiness is not having what you want ,but appreciating what you have.

Feel good about yourself : 

Happiness is when you feel good about yourself without the need for anyone else  approval. 

Happiness is when what you think , what you say, and what you do are in harmony. 

Difference between happy and unhappy people :

Happy people build their inner world .
Unhappy people blame their outer world. 

If you want to live a happy Life, tie it to a goal , not to people or things. 

Happiness is always a choice . You can't wait for circumstances to get better you have to create your own good fortune so look for ways to be happy every day. 

Don’t find someone who makes you happy. 
Make yourself happy then find some. 

Remember , happiness doesn’t depend upon who you are and what you have , it depends solely upon what you Think .

Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Life goes on

Updated : 18 July 2020

Life goes on 

Accept your life's experiences as learning material:

All your experiences the good and the bad are your learning of life. Be grateful for what you have learned .Find the way to move on , from heart breaking realities of life .It is the process that will strengthen you in Future .

Life has it's own rules and regulations :

Apart from your hopes, believes, and expectations  life has its own rules and regulations. Sometimes you  get effortlessly what you want and sometimes life grind you too hard and still you can’t able to fulfil your desires.

Life doesn’t bother that you are papa’s doll , or mama’s princess,  it will treat you as you treat it .

To be successful in your life be a warrior :

Only hard work is in your hands ,and it is the only weapon to fight .
But in some cases in life nothing is required except luck or fate .It is dilemma of life .
 You only have to stay on track and fight your battle because  strong soldiers never quit they fight their battle till their last breath .

No matter what life put in front of them they have courage to face any thing. Life definitely reward those who don’t lose hope .At the end of the day all courageous people will meet their desired goals , or at least they learned a lot from their struggles .

Push yourself a little more :

“Every situation in life is temporary. When life is good make sure you enjoy , and receive it fully. And when  life is not so good , remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way .”

Life goes on , every thing in life is temporary,  life quotes
When life is good make sure you enjoy.

Nothing is permanent. Don’t stress yourself too much because no matter how bad the situation is, it will change .

So in  this temporary life, live with grace ,live with courage and patience, accept  challenges, push yourself a little more everyday towards mental physical and spiritual growth .No matter what just stand and fight nothing last forever your troubles, difficulties, Failures all are temporary .

No matter what, 
Good or bad 
Happy or sad 
Life goes on 
Just learn to move on.  . .