Solitude

Updated: 3 August 2022

Solitude :

Sometimes it is really hard to deal with people, 

• People who don’t want to listen you.
• People who don’t value  you .
• People who take you for granted .

Then the best solution for you is stay away from them .

You know why? 

"Being alone is better than being ignored."

“Being alone is better than losing your self respect.”

"It is better to be a lonely loin, than a popular sheep".

"Loneliness is an essential friend on the road to bravery" . 

~Ibn Arabi

Don’t get disheartened 

"Sometimes life is too hard to be alone , and sometimes it is too good to be alone."

"Don’t let getting lonely make you reconnect with toxic people,

You shouldn’t drink poison just because you are thirsty."

And you know what? 

"No matter how many friends you have in the end of the day, you will be alone with your problems and pain."

There is a little difference between loneliness and solitude. 

Loneliness :

When you feel lonely when you are alone then you are actually emotionally weak.

  “ If you are  lonely when you are alone, you are  in bad company.”

In Jung's views :

"Loneliness doesn't come from having no people around,  but from unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself , or from holding certain views which others find inadmisable."

~carl Jung 

Your loneliness is not loneliness, it is your personal space. 

Don't let your mind misguide you. 

The beauty behind loneliness is that you find out that You don't need anyone but Allah.. (God) 

Solitude :

And solitude is the state of emotional wellness. 

• In which  you feel you are enough. 
• You feel ok either someone wants to spend time with you or not .

Although we are social creatures, still begging time from someone is not advisable from me .

“Some journeys in life can only be traveled alone.”
 ~Ken Poirot

“Loneliness is the poverty of self, solitude is the richness of self.”

~May sarton

Be a loner. It is better than being ignored. 

“Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living”.

~Albert Einstein 

“Without great solitude, no serious work is possible”.

~Pablo Picasso 

No solitude, no serious work. 

“The best thinking has been done in solitude”.

~Thomas Edison

Solitude is addictive:

 “Solitude is dangerous. Its addictive once you see how peaceful it is , you don’t want to deal people.”